Learn a better way to parent your child!
without yelling or drama
You feel like you've tried everything but...
  • Nothing seems to work.
  • Your kids don't trust you, and you don't trust them either.
  • The behaviors seem to be escalating (lying, stealing, defiance...oh my!)
  • The more you try to connect, the more they keep pushing you away.
  • Shame seems to have the upper hand.
  • You can't figure out what's normal teen and what's ADHD, FASD, RAD, trauma, etc.
  • You're running out of patience and compassion.
  • You just can't seem to win.

Imagine a world where (even if you were stuck at home)...
parenting challenging kids didn't include chaos and drama and you knew exactly what to do no matter what crazy behavior you were faced with.

Gain the confidence to know you are a great parent doing great work.


Surround yourself with a community of parents who can assure you that you're not the crazy one.


Find balance and get control of your life back.

Find hope for the future. It's never too late to work on your relationship with your child.

Ultimately if you aren't quite ready to give up on your child.
If you have read all the books, but need help figuring out what to do in your family.

If you have compassion for the trauma, but need practical help for the challenging behaviors.

If you're ready to see your child's true self emerge.
I talk to parents every week who have huge hearts for their kids, but just don't have the right tools or support.
That's why I created the REAL Life Behavior Plan System
I reached out to Melissa when one of our children started displaying scary behaviors that were outside of the tools we had. I had run out of ideas and felt like I was failing. Once we started using the REAL Life Behavior Plan System, I could feel the bitterness slipping away, and I started enjoying my child. The behaviors haven't completely gone away, but I don't live in fear anymore. I feel in control of myself and confident about my parenting. The transformation is like night and day. Thanks to Melissa, we feel like we have our family back again."

Foster and Adoptive Mom

When we adopted an 11, 13, and 14-year-old into our family as parent trainers, we thought we were prepared. We were wrong.

We spent three years in a constant power struggle and dying on all the wrong hills. It took almost losing our kids to get us to do something differently.

Now is your chance to learn from our mistakes. It's never too late.

I've helped dozens of parents shift to a brain-based view of behaviors so they can find more effective solutions besides threatening and punishing. I'm a mom to six kids by birth and adoption. They've taught me a lot about what creates thriving parent-child relationships…and what doesn't.

The REAL Life Behavior Plan System
Get re-energized and become a strong foundation for your family.
Define success.
Learn a systematic, brain-based approach for dealing with behaviors.
Feel successful and enjoy parenting again.

Jamie's Transformation Story

If the only thing this did was...
  • Help you feel less alone.
  • Help you gain confidence that you're a good parent.
  • Help you feel less crazy.
  • Help you strengthen your relationships with your spouse and/or other kids.
  • Get you through the next couple years with less drama.


Stop searching. Stop reading. Stop wondering.
Get the answers and support you need right now.
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Get support on demand because life is unpredictable. No having to show up at a specific time or place.
Bite-sized lessons because I know your brain is tired.
Lifetime access because sometimes we fall behind or need a reminder.

Introductory Pricing

REAL Life Behavior Plan System

21-days of bite-sized, actionable videos delivered right to your inbox so you can see change right away.

Printable worksheets and assessments.

Access to a members-only Facebook group where you can find accountability and support from parents just like you.

REAL Life Behavior Plan System
PLUS Private Coaching

21-days of bite-sized, actionable videos delivered right to your inbox so you can see change right away.

Printable worksheets and assessments.

Access to a members-only Facebook group where you can find accountability and support from parents just like you.

30-days of private access to Melissa via Voxer or text to get answers to all my questions. ($300 value)

21-Day No Risk Guarantee

If you go through all the videos and discover this isn't for you, I'll refund your purchase.

Did I mention the bonuses?
I couldn't help myself. I wanted you to have these too.

The Hidden Benefits of Gaming

In this MP3, Melissa and her husband, Patrick, discuss video games and their approach to managing gaming in their family. You may be surprised at some of their thoughts. Can video games teach kids how to solve problems, work as a team, and even help us connect as families?

The Ultimate List of IEP Accommodations

Even if your child doesn't have an IEP, this will you give you ideas of ways to support your child both at home and in the classroom.

Expert Interview with Carrie Herzberger, Confidence Coach for Teens

In this video, Carrie gives practical tips for building confidence and positive self-esteem in our teens.

What are you waiting for?
Let this be the year that changes everything for your family. Drop the chaos and drama and regain control.
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